Conflict Transformation Leadership - Taking the Third Perspective
Conflict Resolution and Intervention
Facilitation and Conflict Transformation Essentials
comfort and curiosity with conflict
You will learn how to speak your truth while still holding space for the truth of others.
Learn how to see the big picture and
How to intervene in conflict
How to facilitate gererative conversations
how building longterm institutional capacity
Conflict is an opportunity
Rule 2: Everyone needs to be included. That's what effective communication is for.
When to take the 3rd perspective and how.
Rule 3: The process is the solutionthe secret to overcoming conflict is using a process where everyone wins
How to design processes that can ease ongoing conflict and create generative discussions
what --> how
What is Conflict?
Needs vs interests
What is omnipartial Leadership?
How do people know that you respect them? How do they know if you're trustworthy?
How do you make wise decisions in the face of conflict
Continued from: Thomas Killman and CwtE decision tree - What is the right scenario of each strategy.
infintie game examples
small group breakout to come up with questions
Nonviolent Communcation essentials
All human beings share the same needs.
All actions are attempts to meet needs.
Feelings point to needs being met or unmet.
Most conflicts arise from miscommunications about human needs.
All-Win Leadership
Demonstrating that how we hold this now, sets the stage for the future. recognizing dissent as a gift Omnipartiality - All win Thinking Different forms and goals of conflict resolution
Power, Rights and interests evaluative, facilitative & transformative Win-Win Processes
Q&A
The components of conflict
Three ingredients of conflict Three elements of good decision making
How to Speak unarguably
Frameworks for Understanding Interdependence
Basic design for all conflict resolution & facilitation
Diamond design, conflict streams
- circle process
- Informed Deliberation in small groups (world cafe)
- Convergent Faciliation
Practical Applications
- Citizen Assemblies
- Restorative Justice
- Collaborative Negotiation
- Vision Design
- Dispute resolution centers
Why is Conflict So hard? and so important?
Listening
- breaking the conflict cycle
- Helping others communicate their needs
Deciding when to collaborate
Collaborating with Enemy decision tree How to intervene
- BEN Model
- Refelctive listenting
- Dignity
- Authenticity & humility
- tips & tricks
(hosting, listening, convening, documenting, asking great questions)
Where to get started and Learn more
iceberg,
OFNR and ARC
Conflict Cycle
Thomas Kilman and CwtE decision tree
BEN Model. conflict curve,
Kaner's Diamond
Stretch Collaboration
So how do we actually work with people who we don't get along with?
Stretch #1 Embrace the conflict & connection
Stretch #2 Step into the game
Stretch #3 Experiment to find a way forward