Overview
In this section, I describe what I do to keep the routine chores of life easy to do and manageable, so I have the energy to focus on the rest. I spent three months defining it while working with a coach and increased my happiness to levels I did not think possible.
As a person with ADHD, I have issues with routine and staying on track with boring and repetitive tasks. Routine tasks are can be disscarded in my priority but still affect my mind space if I see clothes on the floor or dishes that are not clean.
The first step was creating a system that would allow me to take care of those mundane tasks sustainably.
Life areas
I split my life in 6 different areas. When I did the exercise I dedicated one week for each to define a plan for each area.
Areas
- includes everything that I need to keep the house clean - includes best practices on defining what to eat and when to hydrate - includes what I need to do to keep myself in good physical health and feel energized by my body, including exercise, doctor visits and rest/sleep. - everything to keep my mind healthy, from meditation to healthy habits. - everything that I need to take care of my child. - how manage expenses and and keep healthy budget
Process
For each area of your life you want to go over this process:
For each area, define all the tasks For each task list all the questions Define ADHD way for each task (or consider delegate) - eg. the simples way to do the task Make sure tasks are in calendar / todoist, so you can keep track of them
Below is an example of some of my tasks:
Daily Routine
I found it super important to establish a daily routine to myself, in order to be productive. I need to change it a bit overtime (to shake things up) and change it according to the season (harder to take a walk outside in winter, so might take it inside). This routine is result of reading and listening to lots of science experts, detailed in the . Morning routine
Morning walk (10-15 min) - important to get the body moving 10 minute meditation - Calm daily medidation Get sunlight - super important in waking up - on winter if gray day I use a ring light Read - I find the morning the best part to read things that are complex, like reading a textbook about physics or AI Review what are the tasks for the day Prioritize the tasks by priority Add to the calendar (time box them)
Throughout the day
Exercise + Shower - depending on the day. Exercise plan can be found in - sometimes I like to do it first thing in the morning, but I also feel Lunch is my first meal (I do fasting in the morning)
Evening
10pm leave my phone in the living room and go to bedroom Have a book to read that not super important to focus (makes me sleepy) Make the thermostat be cooler in evening (19c) to help sleep