🔍 Introduction: The Missing Element in Most Sales Conversations
Core Insight: "Sales is relatively simple because there's only one main question at each stage of the conversation."
The four fundamental questions that drive all effective sales interactions:
Intro Stage: "What's going on?" (Current situation) Problem Stage: "What's going wrong?" (Pain points) Solution Stage: "Where do you want to go?" (Desired future) Consequence Stage: "What happens if you don't get there?" (Cost of inaction) 🧩 The Psychology of Ownership
Fundamental Truth:
The consequence stage is the most important part of the call because it prevents 'let me think about it.’
The Therapeutic Foundation:
Drawing from studies in therapy, NLP, hypnosis, psychology, and communication disciplines, this approach:
Creates genuine ownership of the problem Establishes personal responsibility for change Generates internal motivation rather than external pressure The Strategic Progression:
You have to figure out where they're currently at first, create a dialogue, and then lead to this moment where they must tell the truth about whose decision it is to make a change, and what happens if a change doesn't occur.
🗝️ Core Consequence Questions
Future Projection Questions:
"What happens if you don't do anything about this?" "What happens six months from now, a year from now, if your symptoms keep getting worse?" "The course of action you're currently on isn't going to lead to that goal. What happens if things don't change?" Emotional Impact Questions:
"How would it feel if you were never able to achieve this?" "I hate to even ask this, but what happens a year from now if your energy levels keep dropping?" Financial Consequence Questions:
"How much would it cost you by leaving this until later?" "Have you calculated the financial impact of maintaining the status quo?" Pattern Recognition Questions:
"This pattern of not doing anything, what does that lead to?" "Do you feel like it's going to get easier to change or harder the longer you wait?" Ownership Questions:
"Is this the future that you're willing to settle for?" "Is this the outcome that you're open to allowing?" ⚠️ Critical Implementation Challenges
The Timing Problem
The biggest problem isn't having the script. It's not knowing why these questions work,
and people asking them at the wrong time.
Example of Poor Timing:
Right at the beginning of the call:
'What are your goals?'
'I want to make 10K.'
'What happens if you don't hit that 10K?'
That's a consequence question, but it's way too early. You haven't built them up with the Four Horsemen of Pain or made their solution bigger and brighter.
The Earned Right Principle
Consequence questions work only when:
You've created sufficient emotional investment You've mapped a compelling alternative future The gap between current reality and desired future is clear 🧠 The Four Horsemen of Pain
Strategic Framework:
Before asking consequence questions, ensure you've established:
Current Pain: Clearly articulated problems Future Pain: Projected worsening of situation Opportunity Cost: What they're missing by not changing Identity Conflict: How inaction contradicts who they want to be Implementation Strategy:
You haven't set the stage right. You haven't created a favorable environment in which to work. You have to earn the right when asking these consequence questions.
💡 The Empowerment Paradox
Counterintuitive Truth:
By them taking ownership, it's almost this empowering moment where they say:
'I really will do anything to make sure that this future doesn't happen.'
That's where you've got them locked in.
Psychological Transformation:
From external pressure to internal decision From salesperson pushing to prospect pulling From "being sold to" to "choosing to buy" 🌟 Expert-Level Implementation
Tone and Delivery
Ask with genuine concern, not manipulation Use pacing: "I almost hate to even ask this..." Create safety: "I understand this is challenging..." Show empathy: "I know this isn't easy to consider..." Sequence Strategy
The optimal flow:
Validate current challenges Illuminate desired future Expand the gap between these points Then (and only then) explore the consequence of inaction The Commitment Bridge
After consequence awareness, transition to:
"Given what you've just shared, what do you feel is the best path forward?"
💎 Final Wisdom
The consequence stage transforms external pressure ("you should buy") into internal motivation ("I must change").
When executed properly, prospects don't feel pushed toward a purchase—they feel grateful someone finally helped them confront a truth they've been avoiding.
Remember: The most powerful sales moments occur when prospects realize the urgency of change themselves, not when you attempt to create artificial urgency for them.