You hold your money.
Your money is held by companies.
You control where your money goes and how it's spent.
You have to trust companies not to mismanage your money, like lend to risky borrowers.
Transfers of funds happen in minutes.
Payments can take days due to manual processes.
Transaction activity is pseudonymous.
Financial activity is tightly coupled with your identity.
DeFi is open to anyone.
You must apply to use financial services.
The markets are always open.
Markets close because employees need breaks.
It's built on transparency – anyone can look at a product's data and inspect how the system works.
Financial institutions are closed books: you can't ask to see their loan history, a record of their managed assets, and so on.