After a few moments, begin to give thanks to God for the gifts of this day. Special pleasures will spring to mind: a good night’s sleep, the smell of the morning coffee, the laugh of a child. As you move in gratitude through the details of your day, remember that every single event has been God’s gift. The morning sun, the singing of the birds, perhaps a smile from the mail carrier or the kindness of a friend all point to God’s love for you, personally.
After you review the special gifts of God this day, recall the gifts of your own creation. The special and perfect way God has made you brings God’s grace to others. As you have participated in the body of Christ this day you have brought your own strengths—your sense of humor, your ability to cook, your strong hands and arms, your words of encouragement, your patience—to others, and all supported by your family and friends.
You are here looking for signs of those things that cause you to act with less than perfect freedom, given the circumstances of your life. This is not psychoanalysis, but it does bring a certain amount of psychological wholeness to you as you recognize small details.