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Step 2: Consensus

Next, you have to work together to agree on how long things actually take to do. This page shows you all the responses where your estimates were different. You’ll need to come to a consensus to proceed.
Below are all the tasks when you and your partner gave different estimates to the number of hours the task takes.
Alisha
estimated more hours →
Emily
estimated more hours

Click the “Agree” button to agree on a new estimated # of hours. Remember, you’re looking for the total number of hours it takes to complete a task for the week, not the total of hours each person puts in.
Consensus on Hours
Task
Compare
Consensus
Agree
Childcare
Emily: 6 hrs / Alisha: 8hrs
Agree
Cleaning
Emily: 5 hrs / Alisha: 2hrs
Agree
Cooking
Emily: 4 hrs / Alisha: 3hrs
Agree
House Maintenance
Emily: 3 hrs / Alisha: 2hrs
Agree
Laundry
Emily: 3 hrs / Alisha: 2hrs
Agree
Transportation
Emily: 5 hrs / Alisha: 4hrs
Agree
Waste Management
Emily: 2 hrs / Alisha: 1hrs
Agree
Eldercare
Emily: 6 hrs / Alisha: 4hrs
Agree
Car Maintenance
Emily: 2 hrs / Alisha: hrs
Agree
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Next, agree on the split between tasks

The below chart indicates differences in the perceived split in workload between you and your partner.
Remember that in these estimates 0 means “
Emily
does it all” and 100 means “
Alisha
does it all”.
Now, decide what the true split between the work is. Remember: at this time you are agreeing on the current split, not the ideal or target split of work.
Consensus on split
Task
Split
Consensus Split
New Conensus
Agree Split
Childcare
Emily: 50/50 vs Alisha: 60/40
000
50
Alisha 50/50 Emily
Agree
Cleaning
Emily: 90/10 vs Alisha: 70/30
000
60
Alisha 60/40 Emily
Agree
Cooking
Emily: 30/70 vs Alisha: 80/20
000
80
Alisha 80/20 Emily
Agree
Financial Management
Emily: 30/70 vs Alisha: 70/30
000
30
Alisha 30/70 Emily
Agree
House Maintenance
Emily: 80/20 vs Alisha: 60/40
000
70
Alisha 70/30 Emily
Agree
Buying Kids Clothing
Emily: 80/20 vs Alisha: 20/80
000
70
Alisha 70/30 Emily
Agree
Laundry
Emily: 20/80 vs Alisha: 60/40
000
40
Alisha 40/60 Emily
Agree
Social Planning
Emily: 90/10 vs Alisha: 80/20
000
70
Alisha 70/30 Emily
Agree
Transportation
Emily: 30/70 vs Alisha: 70/30
000
70
Alisha 70/30 Emily
Agree
Waste Management
Emily: 80/20 vs Alisha: 40/60
000
40
Alisha 40/60 Emily
Agree
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