Picture this, I just start taking a course with my wife about personal finance, and within 3 meetings I got fired. I didn't know how badly I would need this education when I started. The lord was looking out for me, helping me try and get on the same page with my wife and onto a good footing with money.
Nothing will sink your finances quicker then not being on the same page with your wife.
And the stats are that money, communication and constant fighting are in the top 10 reasons people get divorce.
Take aways from taking a course with your spouse:
A basic education and understanding of money. An understanding of what healthy money habits are. A group of friends and accountability partners to help you. How to become united with your wife on money. In my opinion you need to go through a with your partner (free) by the Church of Jesus Chris of Later-Day Saints or (paid) Dave Ramsey’s . I've personally done both courses and I can vouch for how good they are. by The Church of Jesus Christ of Later-Day Saints. as of the time this podcast was recorded. If taking the church course just contact your local church leaders for details for when the next course is available. Personal Finance Checklist
So these 2 courses were a large influence on me making a checklist around money. Let me know if this helps you.
Weekly
Update The Spending Categories Tracked (Zero Sum Budget System) Meet With Spouse - Update Spending Plan/Budget Monthly
Charting The Big 3 (Income, Expenses, Investment income) Catch Up On Your Mentors & Tools Resources Quarterly
Compare Your Spending By Category Review Investment Accounts & Allocations Update Legacy Drawer In Case You Pass Away Anytime
Emergency Update Spending Plan Together One-Time Setup
Attend Personal Finance Course With Spouse Create Your Own 1-Page Money Plan With Spouse (9 Areas) 72 Hour Food, Water, Safety Investments Consider 1 Month Food, Water, Safety Investments Consider Home Ownership & Paying It Off Faster Consider Up To 12 Month Food & More Water | Safety Investments Investing - Work Towards Retirement Goal Subscribe & Listen To 12 Part Money For Average Joe's Podcast Series Donate Tithing To Church Setup
Bits of Wisdom
Don’t count on social security
Never pre-pay anything (college, funerals...)
Discourages debt consolidation
Never co-sign with another except your spouse